Problems

I realized that I am overly concerned about others problems.
I say I have few best friends, a handful of good friends and many acquaintances.
One thing I find myself doing is constantly checking-in with the people in my life who I am aware has some sort of problems: boy, family and friends.
I have no clue why I choose to juggle so many of people's problems.
I am going to try and focus on my own problems and not check-in so often. Maybe they don't want to be helped. This way I stress less too.